Meeting your Twin Flame is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. You might feel a tingling sensation or a sense of knowing. Something deep inside stirs your emotions. A magnetic energy surges within. The person standing in front of you evokes feelings of a magical connection like a distant memory that brings to the surface your primal energy. You feel as if you are in the middle of some grand reunion with a long-lost friend or lover you didn’t even know you had. You’re about to be swept off your feet, and some part of you feels the energy inside lifting. The excitement fills every dimension of your being. Magic fills the air and surrounds your senses, sexually, emotionally, and intellectually, as you are carried away into a blissful state of being. That’s usually the point where the fairy tale ends and the hard work of transformation begins.
From this moment on, the relationship will unfold according to the spiritual development reached by each person at the soul level, meeting both exactly where you are at this moment in your life. The term Twin Flame could be one of the most misunderstood labels to emerge from the spiritual movement. The belief in connecting with a Twin Flame often leads to spiritual bypassing at a minimum and psychosis or some loss of reality in the other extreme. What happens if the relationship becomes toxic? What’s the difference in a Twin Flame and a soulmate? What else can we learn? Let’s get a whisper on the nature of Twin Flame relationships:
Twin Flame relationships will never be understood in terms of black and white, which means people are best served moving away from any limitations in thought or beliefs around the term. If two people are attracted to each other and fall in love, and if their individual spiritual growth is in alignment, love will follow naturally. The mind thinks it knows everything, but the Higher Self has the elevated view of life where the truth can be seen.
The bond between the Lower and Higher Self must be broken to ensure a healthy relationship between Twin Flames. It takes effort to raise self-awareness to the level of breaking that bond. Negative emotions must be released, which is the duty of every human being and the influence of the Twin Flame. Once the bond is broken, the spirit rises and awakens by taking full responsibility for every action. When every life event can be perceived as neither good nor bad, the soul has grown to reach a higher vibration connected to compassion, balance, harmony, and peace.
Two people can journey through this life without causing injury, harm, or suffering to each other. Every action is a choice, and every reaction is a measure of the soul. Self-care is self-love. Finding the key to loving yourself is the most spiritual thing any person can do. Loving yourself and your fellow human beings is the duty and responsibility of every person. Otherwise, you become responsible for projecting darkness and negativity to create an absence of love in the world.
Awaken to the higher nature of your existence by cleansing negative emotions from the past and living in the only reality available to you, which is this moment. Right here and right now is the only time and space where truth of your existence is fully available.
Bring joy, ease suffering and create beauty, then dance like you mean it!
Blessings, Russell
“Our souls speak a language that is beyond human understanding. A connection so rare the universe won’t let us part.” ― Nikki Rowe